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	<title>Comments on: Do We Really Need to Make EVERYTHING into a BIG DEAL&#8230;Including a SAND BOX? (via Free-Range Kids)</title>
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	<description>It rankles me when somebody tries to tell somebody what to do.</description>
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		<title>By: Violet Kloke</title>
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		<dc:creator>Violet Kloke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Aug 2012 07:28:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks so much for an interesting article. I&#039;ve been searching for this kind of info for for ages now.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks so much for an interesting article. I&#8217;ve been searching for this kind of info for for ages now.</p>
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		<title>By: freedomfan</title>
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		<dc:creator>freedomfan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Aug 2012 09:07:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yeah, there is a lot of distraction here over whether it&#039;s wise to place a sandbox where this guy did. Meh. I don&#039;t know that we&#039;re given enough information to make that determination (traffic on the street, amount of adult supervision, age of kids playing, etc.). And, ultimately, unless I hear otherwise, I will assume that no kid is forced to play in the sandbox against his parents&#039; wishes. IMO, the more relevant issue is whether it&#039;s the city&#039;s job to tell be people where on their property they can put a sandbox.

Some here are assuming that the city owns the property the sandbox is on. There may be some cities where the side strip/parking strip/whatever is city property. There are cities where the homeowner owns the property to the street, often with a right-of-way for a sidewalk. I can&#039;t be sure in this case, but I didn&#039;t get impression the sandbox is on city property from the article. If it &lt;em&gt;is&lt;/em&gt; city property, then I guess the city government gets to determine proper use for it. 

If the sandbox is on the sandbox owner&#039;s property, then I would say the sandbox isn&#039;t doing direct damage to an unwilling party&#039;s person or property (and isn&#039;t posing a clear and present threat of same). In that case, the city government should mind its own business and tell any complainers that they can speak to the sandbox owner themselves and convince him to do something else with it if they want to, but that the government won&#039;t be pro bono hired muscle for every whiner with a phone. 

Then, if necessary, the city government should collaborate with other cities and get the state legislature to pass a law clarifying that the city isn&#039;t liable for damages caused by someone&#039;s non-city-related activity on non-city-owned property. If they were feeling magnanimous, they would extend that indemnity to the property owner, so long as the plaintiff against the property owner should reasonably have understood the risks of that activity and still undertook the activity. (In this case, it might be worth noting that those claiming they were unable to understand those risks may well be making a case against their suitability as parents.)

Of course, pursuing that latter scenario (the one where people take responsibility for their own actions and the city government refuses to do it for them) may not be especially likely in a city as overrun with busybodies as Seattle seems to be.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, there is a lot of distraction here over whether it&#8217;s wise to place a sandbox where this guy did. Meh. I don&#8217;t know that we&#8217;re given enough information to make that determination (traffic on the street, amount of adult supervision, age of kids playing, etc.). And, ultimately, unless I hear otherwise, I will assume that no kid is forced to play in the sandbox against his parents&#8217; wishes. IMO, the more relevant issue is whether it&#8217;s the city&#8217;s job to tell be people where on their property they can put a sandbox.</p>
<p>Some here are assuming that the city owns the property the sandbox is on. There may be some cities where the side strip/parking strip/whatever is city property. There are cities where the homeowner owns the property to the street, often with a right-of-way for a sidewalk. I can&#8217;t be sure in this case, but I didn&#8217;t get impression the sandbox is on city property from the article. If it <em>is</em> city property, then I guess the city government gets to determine proper use for it. </p>
<p>If the sandbox is on the sandbox owner&#8217;s property, then I would say the sandbox isn&#8217;t doing direct damage to an unwilling party&#8217;s person or property (and isn&#8217;t posing a clear and present threat of same). In that case, the city government should mind its own business and tell any complainers that they can speak to the sandbox owner themselves and convince him to do something else with it if they want to, but that the government won&#8217;t be pro bono hired muscle for every whiner with a phone. </p>
<p>Then, if necessary, the city government should collaborate with other cities and get the state legislature to pass a law clarifying that the city isn&#8217;t liable for damages caused by someone&#8217;s non-city-related activity on non-city-owned property. If they were feeling magnanimous, they would extend that indemnity to the property owner, so long as the plaintiff against the property owner should reasonably have understood the risks of that activity and still undertook the activity. (In this case, it might be worth noting that those claiming they were unable to understand those risks may well be making a case against their suitability as parents.)</p>
<p>Of course, pursuing that latter scenario (the one where people take responsibility for their own actions and the city government refuses to do it for them) may not be especially likely in a city as overrun with busybodies as Seattle seems to be.</p>
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		<title>By: a_random_guy</title>
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		<dc:creator>a_random_guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Aug 2012 13:24:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Really, whether or not some bureaucrat thinks it&#039;s safe is irrelevant. The guy who built the sandbox thinks it&#039;s safe, he put it their for his kids, it&#039;s his business. If the neighbors let their kids play in the sandbox, they apparently think it is safe, their business. What&#039;s the problem?

At most, their may be some legitimate ordinance about not building structures in the easement, because they might obstruct vision. A sandbox clearly does not, and anyway is hardly a permanent structure, so the ordinance really should not apply.

For those who think this may be dangerous: it is just not your business to decide. It&#039;s not the city&#039;s business to decide either. His property, his kids, his sandbox, his judgement.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Really, whether or not some bureaucrat thinks it&#8217;s safe is irrelevant. The guy who built the sandbox thinks it&#8217;s safe, he put it their for his kids, it&#8217;s his business. If the neighbors let their kids play in the sandbox, they apparently think it is safe, their business. What&#8217;s the problem?</p>
<p>At most, their may be some legitimate ordinance about not building structures in the easement, because they might obstruct vision. A sandbox clearly does not, and anyway is hardly a permanent structure, so the ordinance really should not apply.</p>
<p>For those who think this may be dangerous: it is just not your business to decide. It&#8217;s not the city&#8217;s business to decide either. His property, his kids, his sandbox, his judgement.</p>
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		<title>By: philly girl</title>
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		<dc:creator>philly girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Aug 2012 04:57:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bob....I watched the video again and it looks as if the driveway and front yard are all on a slope.  This would make it impossible to move the sandbox further up the driveway.  
I don&#039;t see how this is a liability for the city.  As I stated above Philadelphia has many, many old neighborhoods were the children play on the sidewalk right next to the street.....row homes with no front lawns or grassy strips.    It&#039;s the only place for them to play and unless you are on a major boulevard, it&#039;s safe.  This is about bureaucrats and zero tolerance, not the safety of the children.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bob&#8230;.I watched the video again and it looks as if the driveway and front yard are all on a slope.  This would make it impossible to move the sandbox further up the driveway.<br />
I don&#8217;t see how this is a liability for the city.  As I stated above Philadelphia has many, many old neighborhoods were the children play on the sidewalk right next to the street&#8230;..row homes with no front lawns or grassy strips.    It&#8217;s the only place for them to play and unless you are on a major boulevard, it&#8217;s safe.  This is about bureaucrats and zero tolerance, not the safety of the children.</p>
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		<title>By: Bob</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Aug 2012 04:04:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[#21 philly girl

&lt;blockquote&gt;Watch the link. I don’t see a problem at all with the sandbox. Since it is at the end of his driveway (and not a parking spot), it does not impede passengers getting out of a parked car. As for speeding and accidents….it doesn’t look like a dangerous street to me.
http://www.komonews.com/news/local/Seattle-man-fighting-city-to-save-his-sandbox-166193346.html?tab=video&amp;c=y&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Saw the video! The guy is blocking his own driveway with the sandbox, not only that... but there is a car parked in front of the driveway as well. I assume it&#039;s HIS car. Who else would be parking there?

All he has to do is move the sandbox further up the driveway. But no. He&#039;s taking the &quot;I can do whatever the fuck I want&quot; route and insisting that the sand box needs to be right there.

In THIS case, it can be demonstrated that it&#039;s generally safe for the kids because of the car parked right there.

But let&#039;s look at it from the point of view of the city.

If this guy can put a sand box right at the curb, than anyone can put a sand box right at the curb. And without the guarantee of a car parked at the end of the driveway, it could be quite dangerous.

Again.. I don&#039;t have a problem with the danger. There are enough of us humans where we can handle a culling of the herd.

But from a liability standpoint, the city would think otherwise. Idiot parents that let their kids play there could easily sue when their precious offspring is run over by a parking car.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#21 philly girl</p>
<blockquote><p>Watch the link. I don’t see a problem at all with the sandbox. Since it is at the end of his driveway (and not a parking spot), it does not impede passengers getting out of a parked car. As for speeding and accidents….it doesn’t look like a dangerous street to me.<br />
<a href="http://www.komonews.com/news/local/Seattle-man-fighting-city-to-save-his-sandbox-166193346.html?tab=video&#038;c=y" rel="nofollow">http://www.komonews.com/news/local/Seattle-man-fighting-city-to-save-his-sandbox-166193346.html?tab=video&#038;c=y</a></p></blockquote>
<p>Saw the video! The guy is blocking his own driveway with the sandbox, not only that&#8230; but there is a car parked in front of the driveway as well. I assume it&#8217;s HIS car. Who else would be parking there?</p>
<p>All he has to do is move the sandbox further up the driveway. But no. He&#8217;s taking the &#8220;I can do whatever the fuck I want&#8221; route and insisting that the sand box needs to be right there.</p>
<p>In THIS case, it can be demonstrated that it&#8217;s generally safe for the kids because of the car parked right there.</p>
<p>But let&#8217;s look at it from the point of view of the city.</p>
<p>If this guy can put a sand box right at the curb, than anyone can put a sand box right at the curb. And without the guarantee of a car parked at the end of the driveway, it could be quite dangerous.</p>
<p>Again.. I don&#8217;t have a problem with the danger. There are enough of us humans where we can handle a culling of the herd.</p>
<p>But from a liability standpoint, the city would think otherwise. Idiot parents that let their kids play there could easily sue when their precious offspring is run over by a parking car.</p>
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		<title>By: demize!</title>
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		<dc:creator>demize!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 19:21:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Of course this is purely anecdotal. I&#039;m not completely sure I&#039;m here.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Of course this is purely anecdotal. I&#8217;m not completely sure I&#8217;m here.</p>
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		<title>By: demize!</title>
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		<dc:creator>demize!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 19:18:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I used to play stickball IN THE STREET. PS. I am typing this comment now.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I used to play stickball IN THE STREET. PS. I am typing this comment now.</p>
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		<title>By: el coronado</title>
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		<dc:creator>el coronado</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 18:20:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;..but no one has actually defended the bureaucracy in question...&quot;; &quot;...what I hear is a bunch of people discussing whether the sandbox is in a good place or not.&quot; 

Ergo, you&#039;re (perhaps unknowingly) defending the bureaucracy in question. Refusal to attack/scorn/agitate against something as moronic as a Sandbox Safety Regulatory Agency and its soon-to-be-heavily-armed agents means you&#039;re accepting the premise that it needs to, and *should*, exist at all. 

Silence implies consent.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;..but no one has actually defended the bureaucracy in question&#8230;&#8221;; &#8220;&#8230;what I hear is a bunch of people discussing whether the sandbox is in a good place or not.&#8221; </p>
<p>Ergo, you&#8217;re (perhaps unknowingly) defending the bureaucracy in question. Refusal to attack/scorn/agitate against something as moronic as a Sandbox Safety Regulatory Agency and its soon-to-be-heavily-armed agents means you&#8217;re accepting the premise that it needs to, and *should*, exist at all. </p>
<p>Silence implies consent.</p>
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		<title>By: Warren</title>
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		<dc:creator>Warren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 17:56:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My money is on the snitch being someone with no kids, who bitches about the noise of kids playing. Now that they have a gathering spot, this idiot doesn&#039;t like the look or sounds of children laughing.

I say to the snitch, &quot;Come forward and face the music. Instead of standing out there pretending like you didn&#039;t call the city.&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My money is on the snitch being someone with no kids, who bitches about the noise of kids playing. Now that they have a gathering spot, this idiot doesn&#8217;t like the look or sounds of children laughing.</p>
<p>I say to the snitch, &#8220;Come forward and face the music. Instead of standing out there pretending like you didn&#8217;t call the city.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Jen C</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen C</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 17:54:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Reading the original article I could see both sides of the thing, having something right on the curb of a fairly busy residential street would make me twitchy.

But then I watched the video above and have no idea what the big deal is.  The thing is at the end of his driveway which means, most likely, he&#039;ll be parking right in front of it, blocking it from traffic.  The street is also narrow with, apparently, two way traffic (the cars are parked in both direction).  How fast can the cars be going?  And there is a good foot of space from the end of the sandbox until the street starts so it&#039;s not RIGHT on the curb.  

I grew up in Chicago, and minus the driveways, our streets looked a lot like this.  It never stopped us from playing in the grass next to the curb (which is technically owned by the city).  We played in the streets, too.

I raised my kids in Chicago until 2010 (for the most part).  They were babies there, toddlers, preschoolers and grade schoolers.  They always played in the grassy median.  I never thought twice about it.  There were parked cars between them and the traffic.

Growing up in a city like Chicago you learned real quick how to navigate traffic.  Otherwise you ended up dead.  My youngest daughter knew at 2 to not go near the curb.  She would stop a foot from it even if her older siblings were closer.  She also used to yell at any kid she saw in the street and tell them to get back on the grass.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reading the original article I could see both sides of the thing, having something right on the curb of a fairly busy residential street would make me twitchy.</p>
<p>But then I watched the video above and have no idea what the big deal is.  The thing is at the end of his driveway which means, most likely, he&#8217;ll be parking right in front of it, blocking it from traffic.  The street is also narrow with, apparently, two way traffic (the cars are parked in both direction).  How fast can the cars be going?  And there is a good foot of space from the end of the sandbox until the street starts so it&#8217;s not RIGHT on the curb.  </p>
<p>I grew up in Chicago, and minus the driveways, our streets looked a lot like this.  It never stopped us from playing in the grass next to the curb (which is technically owned by the city).  We played in the streets, too.</p>
<p>I raised my kids in Chicago until 2010 (for the most part).  They were babies there, toddlers, preschoolers and grade schoolers.  They always played in the grassy median.  I never thought twice about it.  There were parked cars between them and the traffic.</p>
<p>Growing up in a city like Chicago you learned real quick how to navigate traffic.  Otherwise you ended up dead.  My youngest daughter knew at 2 to not go near the curb.  She would stop a foot from it even if her older siblings were closer.  She also used to yell at any kid she saw in the street and tell them to get back on the grass.</p>
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		<title>By: BamBam</title>
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		<dc:creator>BamBam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 17:40:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Watch the video.  There is parking next to the curb.  The kids are safe, the cars can enter/exit their cars without problem.  F the bureaucrats.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Watch the video.  There is parking next to the curb.  The kids are safe, the cars can enter/exit their cars without problem.  F the bureaucrats.</p>
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		<title>By: ClubMedSux</title>
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		<dc:creator>ClubMedSux</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 16:37:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Two thoughts on the debate of where the sandbox is located... First, I don&#039;t know how many of you live/lived in crowded cities, but there are plenty of urban settings where the &quot;front yard&quot; is basically taken up by the stairs/porch, and there may be no other place to put the sandbox than the strip between the sidewalk and the street. My guess is that, if there were a better place to put the sandbox away from traffic, the owner would have put it there.

Second, and more importantly, kids from all over the neighborhood are playing in the sandbox. Do you really think that many parents would let their kids play there if it were dangerously close to traffic? This, in my opinion, is at the heart of what Lenore&#039;s writing about, and it&#039;s frustrating how many (including self-described libertarians here) are willing to dismiss it: parents are in the best position to decide what&#039;s safe and unsafe for their children, NOT bureaucrats.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Two thoughts on the debate of where the sandbox is located&#8230; First, I don&#8217;t know how many of you live/lived in crowded cities, but there are plenty of urban settings where the &#8220;front yard&#8221; is basically taken up by the stairs/porch, and there may be no other place to put the sandbox than the strip between the sidewalk and the street. My guess is that, if there were a better place to put the sandbox away from traffic, the owner would have put it there.</p>
<p>Second, and more importantly, kids from all over the neighborhood are playing in the sandbox. Do you really think that many parents would let their kids play there if it were dangerously close to traffic? This, in my opinion, is at the heart of what Lenore&#8217;s writing about, and it&#8217;s frustrating how many (including self-described libertarians here) are willing to dismiss it: parents are in the best position to decide what&#8217;s safe and unsafe for their children, NOT bureaucrats.</p>
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		<title>By: philly girl</title>
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		<dc:creator>philly girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 15:48:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[W......I&#039;m not sure where you are from, but I can show you neighborhood after neighborhood in Philadelphia where kids play right next to the street.   A kid drops something in the street, they pick it up between the parked cars.  If a ball gets tossed across the street, an older kid retrieves it for them.  These are streets filled with row homes without yards, just sidewalks.
As for the sandbox, I would bet the toddlers are being watched by the parents!  With a little research, I found more than a couple people that live on the block talk about it being a gathering point for the adults, too. 
As for who called, my money is on a busybody!   I have one on the next block, he refers to himself as the &quot;Mayor of ______ Street&quot;.  He moans and bitchescabout everything and everybody and has used the authorities several times to &quot;correct&quot; things he doesn&#039;t like.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>W&#8230;&#8230;I&#8217;m not sure where you are from, but I can show you neighborhood after neighborhood in Philadelphia where kids play right next to the street.   A kid drops something in the street, they pick it up between the parked cars.  If a ball gets tossed across the street, an older kid retrieves it for them.  These are streets filled with row homes without yards, just sidewalks.<br />
As for the sandbox, I would bet the toddlers are being watched by the parents!  With a little research, I found more than a couple people that live on the block talk about it being a gathering point for the adults, too.<br />
As for who called, my money is on a busybody!   I have one on the next block, he refers to himself as the &#8220;Mayor of ______ Street&#8221;.  He moans and bitchescabout everything and everybody and has used the authorities several times to &#8220;correct&#8221; things he doesn&#8217;t like.</p>
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		<title>By: Stormy Dragon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stormy Dragon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 14:26:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;blockquote&gt;and about half are sticking up for the city/bureaucracy in question.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

No one has actually defended the bureacracy; people have suggested that putting a sandbox right next to the street may not be a good idea or that neighbors could have legitimate reasons for not wanting it there.  Lenore seems to keep making a false dilemma is that the only alternative to intrusive government is that people should do whatever they like regardless of the problems it creates for people around them.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>and about half are sticking up for the city/bureaucracy in question.</p></blockquote>
<p>No one has actually defended the bureacracy; people have suggested that putting a sandbox right next to the street may not be a good idea or that neighbors could have legitimate reasons for not wanting it there.  Lenore seems to keep making a false dilemma is that the only alternative to intrusive government is that people should do whatever they like regardless of the problems it creates for people around them.</p>
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		<title>By: Paul</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 13:36:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If there were no sandbox, the children could still play there, right?  Nothing to stop them?  Then, what is the difference?  If the issue is children wandering into the street, the sandbox is not the problem.   In the morning, put up a little - removable - fence.  Just enough to make it difficult for the children to head straight into the street.  In the evening, take it down.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If there were no sandbox, the children could still play there, right?  Nothing to stop them?  Then, what is the difference?  If the issue is children wandering into the street, the sandbox is not the problem.   In the morning, put up a little &#8211; removable &#8211; fence.  Just enough to make it difficult for the children to head straight into the street.  In the evening, take it down.</p>
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		<title>By: Suzanne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Suzanne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 13:30:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I understand that the front yards are &quot;postage stamp&quot; size.  It still seems like they would be as big or bigger than the strip between the road and the sidewalk.  I think it&#039;s really great that this dad put the sandbox in the front so the neighborhood kids can play in it but I think it should be moved to the otherside of the sidewalk.  I don&#039;t think he should be fined unless he refuses to move it, assuming it could be placed in the small front yard.  When my kids play in the front yard that strip is off limits for play, when we had that strip (now we actually have a line painted on the driveway maybe 10 foot back from the street because we don&#039;t have a tree-lawn and our road is busy.)  I try to be as free-range as possible but if it&#039;s kid vs car the car is going to win every time.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I understand that the front yards are &#8220;postage stamp&#8221; size.  It still seems like they would be as big or bigger than the strip between the road and the sidewalk.  I think it&#8217;s really great that this dad put the sandbox in the front so the neighborhood kids can play in it but I think it should be moved to the otherside of the sidewalk.  I don&#8217;t think he should be fined unless he refuses to move it, assuming it could be placed in the small front yard.  When my kids play in the front yard that strip is off limits for play, when we had that strip (now we actually have a line painted on the driveway maybe 10 foot back from the street because we don&#8217;t have a tree-lawn and our road is busy.)  I try to be as free-range as possible but if it&#8217;s kid vs car the car is going to win every time.</p>
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		<title>By: marie</title>
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		<dc:creator>marie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 13:16:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;i&gt;...and about half are sticking up for the city/bureaucracy in question.&lt;/i&gt;

Well, no. What I hear is a bunch of people discussing whether the sandbox is in a good location or not.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>&#8230;and about half are sticking up for the city/bureaucracy in question.</i></p>
<p>Well, no. What I hear is a bunch of people discussing whether the sandbox is in a good location or not.</p>
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		<title>By: marie</title>
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		<dc:creator>marie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 13:14:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for the link, philly girl. Looks like he doesn&#039;t use his driveway to drive on?

That guy has the coolest eyeglass frames, btw.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the link, philly girl. Looks like he doesn&#8217;t use his driveway to drive on?</p>
<p>That guy has the coolest eyeglass frames, btw.</p>
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		<title>By: marco73</title>
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		<dc:creator>marco73</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 12:21:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My takeaway from the article is that there are several city departments and quite a few bureaucrats burning up tax dollars over a sandbox.

The $500 a day fine wouldn&#039;t pay the coffee bill for all those desk jockeys.

Kids are going to play somewhere - why not in a front yard sandbox?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My takeaway from the article is that there are several city departments and quite a few bureaucrats burning up tax dollars over a sandbox.</p>
<p>The $500 a day fine wouldn&#8217;t pay the coffee bill for all those desk jockeys.</p>
<p>Kids are going to play somewhere &#8211; why not in a front yard sandbox?</p>
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		<title>By: W</title>
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		<dc:creator>W</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 12:03:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Playing next to the street is NOT the same thing as playing in the street.  If you&#039;re in the street, you&#039;re aware of traffic.  You watch for it and you move if you see someone coming.  Kids know that as well as adults.  And the kids that are too young to know that, well they aren&#039;t allowed in the street.

Playing next to the street... you&#039;re not in the street so you don&#039;t pay as much attention to what&#039;s going on.  You drop a toy on the wrong side of the sandbox and bend over to get it, or you step out of the sand box at the wrong time on the side facing the street....  And you want to try and keep a toddler who isn&#039;t old enough to know he needs to avoid traffic away from a sandbox?  Good luck.

I support free range parenting or I wouldn&#039;t be here.  But the whole concept is about balancing risk versus reward and the risk is too high here.  I&#039;d bet money that the anonymous complaint is from what of his &#039;supportive&#039; neighbors who doesn&#039;t want their kid playing in it but knows it would be nearly impossible (and make the kid miserable) to try and forbid it when every other kid on the block was playing in it.

Most of all... all the neighborhood kids can have just as much fun in it if they just put it on the other side of the sidewalk.  8&#039;x4&#039; isn&#039;t that big even in a postage stamp sized yard.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Playing next to the street is NOT the same thing as playing in the street.  If you&#8217;re in the street, you&#8217;re aware of traffic.  You watch for it and you move if you see someone coming.  Kids know that as well as adults.  And the kids that are too young to know that, well they aren&#8217;t allowed in the street.</p>
<p>Playing next to the street&#8230; you&#8217;re not in the street so you don&#8217;t pay as much attention to what&#8217;s going on.  You drop a toy on the wrong side of the sandbox and bend over to get it, or you step out of the sand box at the wrong time on the side facing the street&#8230;.  And you want to try and keep a toddler who isn&#8217;t old enough to know he needs to avoid traffic away from a sandbox?  Good luck.</p>
<p>I support free range parenting or I wouldn&#8217;t be here.  But the whole concept is about balancing risk versus reward and the risk is too high here.  I&#8217;d bet money that the anonymous complaint is from what of his &#8216;supportive&#8217; neighbors who doesn&#8217;t want their kid playing in it but knows it would be nearly impossible (and make the kid miserable) to try and forbid it when every other kid on the block was playing in it.</p>
<p>Most of all&#8230; all the neighborhood kids can have just as much fun in it if they just put it on the other side of the sidewalk.  8&#8242;x4&#8242; isn&#8217;t that big even in a postage stamp sized yard.</p>
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